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Relationship Issues

Relationship Coaching is Different from Couples Counseling

Thank goodness, right? When relationships are struggling, we don’t need somebody to tell us who is “right” and we certainly don’t need somebody to tell us what we’re doing “wrong.” We don't need to spend months sorting out "he said, she said". Relationship coaching is about learning and understanding what our partner ACTUALLY needs so that we can better provide it. All everybody wants is to be happy. We often feel like we can’t make our partner happy… so we stop trying. We can’t understand what our wives want, and it doesn’t help that they can’t explain it. Learn how relationships really work… and with less mystery, you have a fighting chance to succeed in the relationship so that both people can be happy. 

The work we do is generally 3 sessions. Each session is between 90 minutes and 2 hours. You’ll be working one-on-one with a Relationship Coach. This system lets each of you work on the things that are holding you back in the relationships versus the counseling model of having both of you together for the sessions. Our experience has shown that relationship challenges are more about individual challenges… so we focus on making each individual strong so the relationship can be strong again. The first session helps us understand what’s going on in the relationship and helps you understand our model of relationships. We pinpoint what it is you struggle with and how this process will help you. Then we do some foundational work to shake up those old patterns. The second session finds and resolves the internal emotional drivers that led to the infidelity, anger, defensiveness and/or resentment… so those things can become part of the relationship’s past. The third session is all about properly rebuilding and moving your healthy relationship into the future, not the past. 

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Hypnosis is not about controlling people.

You can only control yourself. Do that. It is amazingly effective. Find love and happiness. Get out of relationship ruts. Overcome jealousy, baggage, trust issues or insecurity. Increase your personal confidence and self-worth. Talking about the issues round and round goes no where. Resolve them once and for all. Those faulty patterns are ruining your relationship. Fifty percent of couples who go through marriage counseling end up getting divorced. Your subconscious holds the key to the root of your issues.

Always picking "Mr. Wrong"?

Find yourself repeating the same relationship mistakes over and over? Break free from your old relationship patterns, triggers and insecurities. Fix you in order to fix your relationship. Learn who Mr. Right is for you and how to find him. 

Feel Like Roommates Instead of Lovers

Over time passion fades, however, when it feels like you have become more like roommates than lovers then it is time to get the relationship back on track. Relationship Tune-Ups are quick and effective. Once you understand how you drifted apart, then you can get back on track. Don't wait too long....the bigger the drift the greater the damage. Invest in your marriage. Studies show relationship bliss leads to a longer more satisfying life. 

Get Over A Relationship Or Divorce 

Hurting from a relationship? Repeating the same mistakes?  Break ups are isolating, confusing, and painful. Become whole again so you can find the love that you desire. Whether your loved one  moved out, cheated or you are in a dysfunctional relationship, replace anger and resentment with calmness and optimism. Divorce is a new beginning, a chance to learn more about yourself. Find out what you really want or need. Many times it is not what you think. Love is an emotion...hypnosis works with your emotions so you can find lasting, healthy love and respect. You deserve to be appreciated and valued.


Getting Married or Recently Engaged

Looking to start the relationship off right? Hypnosis gives you a fresh start. Work on anxieties and put the past baggage behind you so that you can have a new beginning.


Relationship Issues
Switching out one failed relationship for another isn't the solution. Work through your relationship with yourself first. Get the relationship right on the inside, then you can attract healthy relationships.  Hypnosis deals with the reactionary side of your mind that gets defensive and hurt instead of working toward a solution. 

Relationship Issues We Have Experience With:

  • Trust and confidence in the relationship, infidelity
  • Relationship Coaching, Marital Coaching
  • Relationship Advice and Decision Making
  • Feelings of anger, fear, insecurity or jealousy
  • Intimacy Issues, Problems in the Bedroom
  • Divorce recovery and finding your happy 
  • Go from criticizing and complaining to effectively communicating 
  • How to get over a past relationship and feel more optimistic about the future 
  • Learn how to get out of a bad or unhealthy relationship
  • Commitment issues, pushing people away
  • How to Find the one and create a loving relationship
  • Decide what you are looking for in a healthy relationship and attract Mr./Ms. Right
  • Confidence to go out and date new people, newly single, be approachable, dating confidence   
  • Shyness and being the nice guy who finishes last 
  • Relationship frustration and downward spirals, don't let anyone treat you poorly
  • Challenges of a divorce or break up, death of a partner
  • Emotional connection, enjoy each other again
  • Women's and Men's Personal Issues

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As hypnotists, we get a lot of questions about how hypnosis can help people in relationships. We have worked with hundreds of couples to strengthen and repair their relationships. Let’s be clear, right up front: this isn’t traditional marriage counseling or couples counseling. There’s a place for sitting with a neutral arbitrator to sort through issues. 

As hypnotists, we don’t do it that way. We do something very, very different. Each partner meets with an individual hypnotist to work through own issues. The goal is to build and strengthen each partner so that they find themselves as complete, sufficient, worthy, and loveable. Many relationships fall apart because one partner is hoping the other partner can “complete” them and fill the holes in their heart, mind or soul. By recognizing your value and strengths, you find that you are whole whether you are in or out of a relationship.

Emotions are what hypnosis is all about. We’re specialists in the underlying emotions such as getting defensive or jealous when not called for. We help you clear the fearful child within so you can focus on love, individually and together as courageous adults. Think about when you first met that perfect person. Everything was so great. You were so focused on the things you wanted to see that you were able to eliminate all of the other things. Being in a deep state of love and that intense focus is very much like hypnosis. When you are intimate, or cuddle, that beautiful few moments when all those endorphins are flowing and you feel so very close… is an alpha state. If you’re missing that feeling with the person you’re in a relationship with, we can help you recapture it. In fact, we can help you strengthen it.

Whether we are helping you overcome the pain of previous relationships, mistakes in this relationship, increase personal confidence and self-worth, or helping with sexual performance or desire issues, your completely confidential work with the certified hypnotists at Hawaii Hypnosis Center can get you both on a new and amazing track. 

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