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Relationship Issues

Relationship Issues

Relationship Coaching is Different from Couples Counseling

Thank goodness, right? When relationships are struggling, we don’t need somebody to tell us who is “right” and we certainly don’t need somebody to tell us what we’re doing “wrong” as in traditional marriage or couples counseling. We don't need to spend months sorting out "he said, she said". Relationship coaching is about learning and understanding what our partner ACTUALLY needs so that we can better provide it. Everybody wants to be happy. We often feel like we can’t make our partner happy… so we stop trying which leads to problems in the relationship. We don't understand what our partner wants, and it doesn’t help that they can’t explain it. Learn how relationships really work… and with less mystery, you have a fighting chance to succeed in the relationship so that both people can be happy. 

Work one-on-one with a Relationship Coach. This system lets each of you work on the things that are holding you back in the relationship versus the counseling or therapy model of having both of you together for all of the sessions. Relationship problems are more about individual challenges… so we focus on making each individual whole so the relationship can be strong again. The first session helps us understand the problems in the relationship and helps you understand your relationship style and where the relationship issues come from. We pinpoint what it is the relationship strugglse with and how this process will help you. Then we do some foundational work to shake up those old patterns that are causing the relationship issues. The second session finds and resolves the internal emotional drivers that led to the infidelity, anger, defensiveness and/or resentment… so those things can become part of the relationship’s past. The third session is all about properly rebuilding and moving your healthy relationship into the future, not the past. 

Check out our Relationship Website for more information on the differences between therapy/counseling and coaching...

How To Solve Relationship Issues

You can only control yourself. Do that. It is amazingly effective. Find love and happiness by getting out of relationship ruts. Overcome jealousy, eliminate baggage, repair trust issues or insecurity. Increase your personal confidence and self-worth. Those faulty patterns are ruining your relationship. Fifty percent of couples who go through marriage counseling or therapy end up getting divorced. Love is a powerful emotion, read the eBook for free to learn more about how to harness it.

Always picking "Mr. Wrong"?

Find yourself repeating the same relationship mistakes over and over? Break free from your old relationship patterns, triggers and insecurities. Fix you ...fix your relationship. Wondering if you are in a Toxic Relationship?  Check out Randy's advice on MSN

Feel Like Roommates Instead of Lovers

Over time passion fades, however, when it feels like you have become more like roommates than lovers then it is time to get the relationship back on track. Relationship coaching helps you understand how you drifted apart, then you can get back on track. Don't wait too long....the bigger the drift the greater the damage. Invest in your marriage. Studies show relationship bliss leads to a longer more satisfying life. 

Get Over A Relationship Or Divorce 

Hurting from a relationship? Repeating the same mistakes?  Break ups are isolating, confusing, and painful. Stop ruminating. Become whole again so you can find the love that you desire. Whether your loved one moved out, cheated or you are in a screwed up relationship, replace anger and resentment with calmness and optimism. Divorce is a new beginning, a chance to learn more about yourself. Find out what you really want or need. Many times it is not what you think. Work with your emotions so you can find lasting, healthy love and respect. You deserve to be appreciated and valued.

Getting Married or Recently Engaged, Premarital Coaching

Looking to start the relationship off right? Work on anxieties and stop the old cycles so that you can have a new beginning.

Relationship Problems
Switching out one failed relationship for another isn't the solution. Work through your relationship with yourself first. Get the relationship right on the inside, then you can attract healthy relationships. No longer deal with defensiveness and triggers. 

Relationship Issues We Have Helped Clients Overcome:

  • Trust and confidence in the relationship, infidelity, relationship therapy
  • Relationship Coaching, Marriage Counseling
  • Relationship Advice and Decision Making
  • Feelings of anger, fear, insecurity or jealousy
  • Intimacy Issues, Problems in the Bedroom
  • Divorce recovery and finding your happy 
  • Go from criticizing and complaining to effectively communicating 
  • How to get over a past relationship and feel more optimistic about the future 
  • Learn how to get out of a bad or unhealthy relationship, relationship problems, trouble in marriage
  • Commitment issues, pushing people away
  • How to find the one and create a loving relationship
  • Decide what you are looking for in a healthy relationship and attract true love 
  • Confidence to go out and date new people, newly single, be approachable, dating confidence   
  • Shyness and being the nice guy who finishes last 
  • Relationship frustration and downward spirals, don't let anyone treat you poorly
  • Challenges of a divorce or break up, death of a partner
  • Codependency Issues
  • Reigniting emotional connection, enjoy each other again
  • Women's and Men's Personal Issues

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Relationship Counseling

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As hypnotists, we get a lot of questions about how hypnosis can help people in relationships. We have worked with hundreds of couples to strengthen and repair their relationships. Let’s be clear, right up front: this isn’t traditional marriage counseling or couples counseling. There’s a place for sitting with a neutral arbitrator to sort through issues. 

As hypnotists, we don’t do it that way. We do something very, very different. Each partner meets with an individual hypnotist to work through own issues. The goal is to build and strengthen each partner so that they find themselves as complete, sufficient, worthy, and loveable. Many relationships fall apart because one partner is hoping the other partner can “complete” them and fill the holes in their heart, mind or soul. By recognizing your value and strengths, you find that you are whole whether you are in or out of a relationship.

Emotions are what hypnosis is all about. We’re specialists in the underlying emotions such as getting defensive or jealous when not called for. We help you clear the fearful child within so you can focus on love, individually and together as courageous adults. Think about when you first met that perfect person. Everything was so great. You were so focused on the things you wanted to see that you were able to eliminate all of the other things. Being in a deep state of love and that intense focus is very much like hypnosis. When you are intimate, or cuddle, that beautiful few moments when all those endorphins are flowing and you feel so very close… is an alpha state. If you’re missing that feeling with the person you’re in a relationship with, we can help you recapture it. In fact, we can help you strengthen it.

Whether we are helping you overcome the pain of previous relationships, mistakes in this relationship, increase personal confidence and self-worth, or helping with sexual performance or desire issues, your completely confidential work with the certified hypnotists at Hawaii Hypnosis Center can get you both on a new and amazing track. 

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